Build Stronger Lasting Relationships

Attract And Build
The Strong, Lasting Love

You Desire & Deserve!

Here's How:

Step 1:
How Good Are Your
Relationship Skills Now?

If You Want...

To joyfully share your life with a partner.
To avoid defensiveness & bickering.
To effectively resolve conflicts, as well as repair & restore your love.

You need your emotional intelligence super powers!

If You Want...

To be even more skillful in building trust and deepening intimacy.
To naturally & truthfully escalate attraction and turn-on.
To live your best relationships, even if you didn't have the best examples to learn from.

You need your emotional intelligence super powers!

If You Want...

To gain clarity about a relationship whose future seems uncertain.
To gracefully and skillfully navigate a separation while minimizing negativity.
To re-build after a relationship separation and move through the "Now what?" phase .

You need your emotional intelligence super powers!

Let Me Help You Develop Your

Emotional Intelligence Superpowers

So You Can Confidently:

Create Connection
Any Time Anywhere

Create meaningful moments instead of passively hoping they will happen.

Deepen Intimacy & Attraction

Confidently build intimacy and turn-on. Eliminate jealousy and build rock-solid trust.

Master Difficult Conversations

Resolve conflict in 20 minutes instead of 4 days.

Stay Centered & Effective in Highly Emotional Situations

Speak your truth with dignity, clarity and skill. Remain grounded and effective in highly-charged emotional situations.

Repair, Restore & Renew Your Relationships

Instead of spiraling downward into unhealthy patterns, learn how to pull out of a nose-dive and create upward, healthy momentum.

Maintain Healthy Boundaries

Grow beyond co-dependence, and if necessary, navigate separation with grace and dignity.
Live "Happily ~~ever~~ even after."

Introducing The Emotional & Relational Intelligence Masterclass

– Confidently respond to any relationship challenge! –

Upgrade your five emotional intelligence super powers in 8-weeks!

Welcome To:
The Emotional & Relational Intelligence Masterclass

– Confidently respond to any relationship challenge! –

How This Works:

Structured,
Self-Paced
Curriculum

Based on the 5 Core Competencies of Emotional Intelligence and the 5 Pillars of Authentic Relating, you'll get lifetime access to updates for this continually evolving course. Follow at your own pace or use for reference even after the 8 weeks.

Optional Weekly Group Coaching Calls

For those wanting additional support, I meet weekly to work with participants to ensure deep work and lasting change.

Bring your own situations to work on with coaching. You don't need a partner to do this work, we'll get you an accountability partner.

Weekly Masterclass Group Coaching:
Every Wednesday or Sunday 7-9pm EST

Real Coaching For Real Life

The best way to learn is to practice with the actual events and people in your life. You'll have guidance & reflection on real-world challenges.

In addition to the group coaching session every week, you can also request one-on-one sessions for more personalized help. One free session is included in the course.

It's like crossfit for your emotional & relational intelligence

Recent Success Story:

When I look back on situations where I wish I had these skills and perspectives, or applied them, I think wow, things could have been very different...

- Dave

- Sr. Executive Recruiter

The difference I most notice through this work, is more quality and depth to my relationships.

Not just romantically, but family and friends and work relationships are better because I'm brining more of myself to them.

Chris Boustead

Senior Quality Engineer at Lockheed Martin

What I really like about this tool set is sharing my experience in a way that is inarguable truth.

It keeps things simple and I feel more connected to the person I am talking to.

Praveen Mantena

Co-Founder, Leadership Coach and Culture Advisor at Burst Forward

Kevin Brown brings a wealth of experience and an invaluable toolkit that has helped me become a more effective executive, as well as a more present, engaged, father and husband.

Craig Taber

Founder and CEO

Locavore Delivery, INC

Masterclass Success Story Discount

To help build a library of success stories,
I'm offering a special price for the next tier of participants.

You'll have lifetime access to the online course & updates
You can start anytime
Must commit to completing the course
Must agree to record testimonials
Price will increase after this tier

8-Week Masterclass
($3,450 value)

You'll have lifetime access to the online 8-week course & all updates ($2,500 value)
Bonus #1:
Two free months of group coaching ($800 value)
Bonus #2:
One free 75 min initial break-through session ($150 value)
You can start anytime

$995
(One-time or payments)

Apply Below For Success Story Discount

Would You Like Help?

Emotional & Relational Intelligence
Master Class Outline:

Weeks 1-2:
Self Awareness

Have you ever felt totally outgunned in an argument?

You're partner is processing circles around you while you're trying to remember what the heck happened?

Or... your partner does not want to play nice in the moment, and you feel you have to be the adult in the conversation.

Or... you deeply care about this person and you want to help each other back into alignment with what's true in the most artful way you can.

Know Your Version of the 2 Mindsets

In any given moment we are in one of these two mind sets. One is effective, one is not.
Learn The Art Of Non-Defensiveness
(Relational Aikido)

Learn how to masterfully dance with opposition and criticism in a way that is genuinely effective.
Learn The 4 Relationship Poisons and the 4 Antidotes For Them

We've all experienced the 4 poisons, but with practice you can prevent or reverse them.
Make Distinctions Like A Wine Connoisseur

Articulate your feelings, and discern others' feelings with a clarity that inspires trust and the feeling of being understood.

Note:

This involves active experiments.
Results will match your level of practice.

I'm Interested

Week 3:
Self Regulation

Sometimes our feelings and behaviors may not be in proportion to what is actually happening.

Whether you, your partner, or both of you are in this state, you can recover.

Self-regulation is different than self-control!

Amygdala Hijack:
Understand How Your Nervous System Works

It's not just you, or them. It's also evolutionary biology at work. Understand the biological influences in the classic 4 defense mechanisms, as well as how to unwind them.
Recognize Dis-regulation In Yourself And Others

Ironically, when we are disregulated the part of us that recognizes disregulation can be offline. Learn how to differentiate the two states and the rules of engagement for each one.
3 Practices To Quickly Regulate Yourself and Others Without Being Co-Dependent

Learn 2 bio-hacks for stress & anxiety, and how to practice the yoga of feeling your feelings.

Note:

This involves active experiments.
Results will match your level of practice.

I'm Interested

Week 4:
Purpose/Motivation

We all do things we know we shouldn't, or neglect doing things we know we should.

Learn how to bring yourself and others into alignment by using your motivational compass.

Reveal And Resolve Conflicting Agendas

A key skill in life is to be able to unify will, desire, and efforts in the same direction.
Create A Life-Purpose Statement in One Hour

No, you don't need a month in the desert. Turns out it takes about an hour.
Discover What Truly Motivates You And Others

Inspire & engage yourself and others to do what needs to be done.

Note:

This involves active experiments.
Results will match your level of practice.

I'm Interested

Week 5-6:
Empathy/Connection

The ability to understand someone else's perspective and experience is an active practice, not a fixed quality one possesses.

This is one of the most important things you can learn and practice in this lifetime.

Master the #1 Most Important Relational Skill

Gift others with the experience of being seen, heard and understood. Just because you think you hear them, doesn't mean they will feel understood.
Learn The Vital Differences Between Pity, Sympathy, Empathy And Compassion

Imagining what you would do in someone else's situation does not help the way you think it will.
Understanding & Exercising the 3 Types of Empathy

We all have varying levels of cognitive, affective, and compassionate empathy. Master these 3 aspects of your empathy superpower.

Note:

This involves active experiments.
Results will match your level of practice.

I'm Interested

Weeks 7-8:
Putting It All Together- Relational Skills

You don't need a list of rules to memorize to have great relationships.

Better to sharpen your innate skills with a structured system, which can also be used to diagnose where breakdowns are occuring.

Build Connection, Intimacy & Turn On With The 3 Levels Of Conversation

Tune in to the appropriate level of conversation in any interaction to create impact.
Master the 4-Step D.E.A.R. Process For Having Difficult Conversations

A simple, repeatable, tool that applies all the skills you'll learn to be effective in real-life situations.
Maintain Healthy Boundaries

Where's the fun in that you say? Turns out healthy boundaries are not only good for you, but fun and sexy!

Note:

This involves active experiments.
Results will match your level of practice.

I'm Interested

Your Guide:

Kevin Brown

My inspiration for creating the Relational Skills Bootcamp stems from my experience of being a facilitator with the Authentic Man Program and founding faculty member of the Integral Center of Boulder, Colorado.

Our team created some of the most profound, effective relational leadership courses available. What we taught there has transformed my life and the lives of students around the US, Europe and SE Asia.

I continue this work as a relational intelligence coach and workshop facilitator by sharing the best practices we developed over our 10 years as a team, as well as my own research and practice in emotional intelligence development.

I've also studied, practiced and taught Tantra for over 20 years, and I’m a Medical Qigong Practitioner through the International Institute of Medical Qigong, so the embodiment of spiritual and personal growth practices is central to my life.

All this work has been combat tested in real world experience, such as:

Coaching hundreds of people through a diverse array of challenging relationship situations
Supporting a loved-one through post-assault trauma and helping restore their ability to trust and feel joy again
Supporting an aging parent with dementia
Successfully navigating anxiety and depression myself

I'm an explorer by nature, and I tend to map my journeys in order to help others that may explore a similar terrain.

Most importantly, I'm curious how I can help you. Let's find out!